How many times in a relationship do we say; "you just don't get it" and you hear "I thought she said" . "I did not say that", "I said this","which part of that didn't you understand?"... a duh! I think you get the drift of what I'm saying. Or do you?

Ok, Lets Talk...shall we! So,does that sound familiar to you; well it does to me and on more than one occasion and sometimes it's funny and other times .. well not so funny ..it hurts! Words do hurt!! Ouch!

Hey, what I'm not saying in anyway is that I have "arrived" in this relationship thing! I do however have a PHD... in Pain, Hurt, Disappointment ..that would be my (PHD) credentials. I'm not Dr Phil. or Ms. O. .. I'm not even a "relationship guru"! I have failed more than once. I don't know about you, but "I'm tired of it"! It's time I knew what "He said or She said" so that we can have the relationships we desire and that we crave. Somebody say... AMEN! Faith ...too that!!

So Faith, what's a girl or guy to do? My Pastor made a statement that he would rather learn from someone"who walks with a limp, rather than someone who has never been there". Guess that makes me qualified(PHD), as well as many of you. So, together we can say..."I have been there, done that, and got the PHD". However, some of us discover that "enough is enough" so now what?

OK..You ask: How can we take the hurt, the pain and disappointment out of our relationship or the lack of a relationship? Are you feeling depressed, or loss of hope in your life? Do your dreams seem like they will never happen? Are you tired of making dumb mistakes and feeling terrible about your decisions? Is your relationship or marriage not going in the direction you hoped? Do you want things to change?

Lets Talk...Join me in a lively discussion on just why it takes a three-some to build a loving and successful relationship filled with hope, peace, joy and healing ...yep that's what I said:

• Keep the flame burning in your relationship
• How to have a healthy relationships in and out of marriage
• Keep commitment strong in the good times and tough times
• Communicate better and just have fun! I need fun!! How about you?

Remember... All things are possible with God in the center of your life and relationship! Even communication !